INTERNET PIMPIN 2: The Ladies Guide to Online Dating

Ladies! Have you ever dreamed of meeting the love of your life? Does it seem like you'll never get to meet Mr. Right because you're so use to being discouraged by the Mr. Wrongs and the Mr. Right Nows of the world? The modern dating scene is a wild jungle filled with terrible blind dates, dead-beat losers, overcrowded bars, hopeless singles events, and emotionally disturbed and desperate loners.

But you deserve better than this! You deserve to find that special someone. Someone you can really connect with. A man that you’re physically, mentally, and emotionally attracted to. Someone who loves you for who you are, and someone who can be your soul-mate and your best friend. Finding the elusive Mr. Right is difficult but not impossible. There is still hope. Why not try online dating?! You have nothing to lose! There are millions of quality single men to choose from and the possibilities of finding love are endless!

Internet Pimpin 2: The Ladies Guide to Online Dating is the second installment of the ultimate online dating guide series. This step by step guide will show you how to setup your online profile to attract and seduce quality men, how to spark interests with the right messages, how to build a strong connection through conversations, how to get a date with Mr. Right and most importantly, it will also show you how to keep him. Now here’s your chance to make it all come true. This is your chance to find the man of your dreams!

WHY PEOPLE HATE (Lifestyle Advice For Men and Women)

There are many reasons why people hate. People hate when they feel inferior and superior to others, hate out of fear, hate when others beliefs don't match theirs, hate what they don't understand, hate the differences they see in others, and also hate what they can't conquer and achieve. So why do people hate on other people? Well, there seems to be deep rooted insecurities in the minds of most human beings that cause them to hate. The main reason why people hate is that people are very emotional creatures. And their whole lives are affected based on their feelings. You can't fully remedy hate. There will always be some people that will hate on you no matter what. But there are ways to remedy most hatred against you.

Don't let the haters bother you. Just live your life. But try to analyze the situations that you're in and take action to avoid any hostility that may cause you to get harmed, feel insecure or become embarrassed. Don't be arrogant (but be confident), don't be a show off or act like you're better than everyone, don't act like a know it all (ignorance is bliss), listen more than you speak, be respectful and kind to everyone (make people feel good about themselves).

THE TRUTH ABOUT YOUR MALE FRIENDS (Dating Advice For Women)

Believe it or not ladies, but your so called "male friends" are not really your friends at all! Most men and women can not be just friends. Why you ask? Well, because there are usually ulterior motives involved. And in many cases, those motives involve something sexual. For instance, a "male friend" of yours has decided to be your friend and has stayed in the "friend zone" for years, in hopes that he may one day have sex with you. Another reason for being your friend is that he believes you can help him attract more women for him. For instance, he may want you to hook him up with your sister, your cousin, your girlfriend, women at nightclubs, or some other women that you may know. Other reasons for being your friend is that you may be wealthy, popular, well-connected or just a valuable business contact.

Now please don't get upset at me, not all of your male friends want to use you. There are some exceptions! One exception for a man to honestly be your true friend is if he does not find you physically or sexually attractive. Yes. I know this may come as a shocker to you girls but this is just how men think. If we're not attracted to you, then you're automatically placed in either one of two categories: Friend or Nobody. Another reason for being your true friend is if he's gay. Now this one's obvious because gay men are only attracted to men and they usually have at least one or more lady friends to relate to. The third reason for being your true friend is if he's already in a committed relationship with someone. And the last reason for being your true friend is that, you're actually a fun and interesting person that's pleasant to be around.

So there you have it ladies! This is the truth about your "male friends". There are some that truly are your friends. But the majority of them have ulterior motives for being "just friends" with you.

Are you a Text-a-holic? (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

The relatively new technology called Textin' is destroying the way we effectively communicate with one another. Call me crazy but whatever happened to just calling some body and hearing their voice? Now don't get me wrong. I'm a big advocate for new technology but textin' is a cold and impersonal way of communicating. It only has a few positives: exclusivity, no awkward pauses, and quick messaging. Textin' is a very inefficient way of trying to get to know someone because there are no emotions involved, no sounds, apart from the click-clack sounds on a keypad, followed by an annoying ringtone. And worst of all, there is nothing intimate about it. And yes I know that more and more people are textin', but that does not mean that it's necessarily a good thing. These Text-a-holics are becoming a generation of mindless drones that are slowly losing the most basic and precious form of human interaction, speech! When it comes to dating, men and women need to call, hear, and speak to each other in order to establish a real personal connection.

Think about it, your intuition about a person is much clearer when you finally hear their voice over the phone for the first time. You also get to gauge their personality, their emotions, as well as their intellect much closely. Textin' should not be used as a dating tool because it does nothing to improve it. It keeps you more distant and disconnected from the person that you're trying to hook up with. Call the person that you're interested in, speak to them, hear how you both react to each others voices, setup a date together, and meet each other in person. Besides, if a person would rather text you than call you, he or she is either already in a relationship, a social outcast, very timid, or they're just plain flakey and secretive. And I don't think that's the kind of person you would want in your life. Now do yourself a favor! Stop textin' and start CALLING!

HE DOES NOT WANT TO MEET YOUR FRIENDS! (Dating Advice for Women)

Ladies! Ladies! Ladies! Let me tell you something about men and dating. We do not want to meet your friends! Yes, I know it sounds harsh but hear me out. Let's say we met at some moment in time, conversed, and decided to exchange phone numbers with one another. Now later on, we decide to contact one another for an official meet and greet. This official meet and greet can also be called a "first date", "meet up", or "hanging out". Now on a date, men are thinking that we are going to be meeting with you and only you! We do not want to meet anyone else! Not your friends, not your brother, not your mother, not your father, and especially not your crazy co-worker with the glass eye that won't stop staring at us. We want to meet only you because we are interested in getting to know you more and possibly have sex with you in the near future. And if you've proven to be more than just another sex buddy, we will promote you to honorary girlfriend! And by then, we will gladly meet your friends. I know that you bring your friends for confidence and safety reasons but, you really don't need them. Why bring them for confidence and safety? Men do not want a woman with low self-esteem. It's too much of a hassle. And when it's comes to safety, we are meeting at a public place for that reason alone. And if you're really unsure, you can also meet us in the afternoon at a public place that is familiar to you.

Bringing your friends to our meet up spot only proves to us that you don't trust us, you're an immature person who can't do anything without her friends, and that you probably have a boyfriend. So next time you're going to meet up with a guy that you like, lose your friends! We don't want to meet your friends!

Stop being a Punk-Bitch! (Dating Advice for Men)

The worse thing you can be when dealing with women, is a Punk-Bitch! First of all, let me define what a Punk-Bitch is for all you guys out there. A Punk-Bitch is someone who has low self confidence. A person who let's people take advantage of him. So are you a Punk-Bitch!? Do you let women flake out on you? Do you let females use you for your money? Are you too accommodating? Do you let them disrespect you? If so, you really need to stop being a Punk-Bitch! Be a Man! Have some respect for yourself. You don't need to worry about impressing women with what material possessions you have. Be confident in yourself and show them the real you. Don't kiss their asses, demand respect from them, don't invest any money in them, and don't worry about what they think of you. The result will be.... them respecting you, chasing you, calling you, admiring you, and loving you. All because you stopped being a Punk-Bitch! Now stop being a Punk-Bitch and Be a Man!

Why you're a Slut and He's a Playa (Dating Advice for Women)

There are some women that complain about men being called "PLAYAZ" for having sex with multiple women, and women being called "SLUTS" for having sex with multiple men. This is a double standard for a variety of reasons. The first reason for this double standard is for the simple fact that sex is more available to women than it is for men. Most women get offered sex from men like hotcakes almost everyday of there lives. Usually from their early teenage years to their thirties. The sexual advances and offerings that women receive from men start to decrease as they reach a certain age because women are mainly judged by their beauty/physical appearance and youthfulness. Both of these traits tend to diminish for women as they get older as well as the amount of available quality suitors. This is also the reason why the majority of females want to get married or settle down within their mid to late twenties. For most men, the opposite effect happens. Their chances of getting sex increases as they age because men in society are mainly judged for having social status, money, a stable career, a car and a home. And they obtain these things including knowledge and wisdom, as they age. So it's easy to be a SLUT. And hard to be a PLAYA. This is one of the reasons why men are praised for being "PLAYAZ" and women are looked down upon for being "SLUTS".

The second reason for this double standard is that most women become emotionally attached to the men they sleep with. This later leads to emotional and psychological baggage when the men they've had sex with or are currently having sex with, don't have any feelings for them. These women also become known as "damaged goods" that have been worn out not only mentally and emotionally, but also physically, by so many men. In contrast, most men can have sex with multiple women and not have any feelings for them at all. It's not because the majority of men in the world are evil and heartless. It's just that a man's sexual purpose is for conquest, enjoyment, and spreading his genes. And they only value sex with someone they're actually have respect, trust, and love for. You can't honestly respect, trust, or even love a SLUT. And yes, it's true that some people do change, but in actuality, most people don't.

The third explanation is that women run the risk of not only attracting Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) from the result of sleeping with many men, but also have the risk of unwanted pregnancies. And even if a female does want her child, she will have to go through the physical, mental, and emotional struggles of carrying a child, giving birth to it, and raising it. And in some cases, women that do have children out of wedlock tend to become single mothers and are usually the last choice if any, when it comes to dating. Men also run the risk of obtaining STDs and getting multiple baby mamas. Even though a man is by law responsible for providing financial support for his offspring, he is not forced by law to be there physically for them, leaving the mother with most of the responsibilities and the burden. So please take heed ladies! Don't give up the ass too quickly to most of the men you date, be very picky in choosing the men you do have sex with, and have a small and limited number of sex partners. And remember this, you cannot gain a man's trust, his respect, or his love, if you don't respect yourself.

MAKING CHANGES (Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

To evolve and improve in life, you must make changes. Change the way you think, the way you act, and the way you approach different situations. Your life will begin to change for the better because you are learning to adapt to your surroundings. Life is about survival. And the best way to survive sometimes is to change. Yes, it is scary sometimes to face and accept change but it will eventually happen. Either you learn to change or suffer the negative consequences.

Listen to your mate (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

Relationships are all about communication, trust, and compromise. Couples need to learn to listen to what their telling each other. If there's a problem, both of you need to relax and calmly discuss the issues that you are having with one another. Don't think about hurting each others feelings. Letting everything out in the open is the only way to resolve your problems. And after you've talked about your problems, then you can take steps to rectify them. This process never fails and will bring closure to every given situation.