New Year's Eve Romance (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

Finding love this New Year's Eve will not be as difficult as you may think. It will almost be 10 years into the 21st century and many people are filled with excitement and optimism for the New Year of 2010. Go out and join the celebration! There are parties in every town and city all over the world! Go to nightclubs, bars, restaurants, outdoor parties, and other venues to meet singles and just have fun. And who knows, you might just end up finding and falling in love with that special someone this New Year's Eve! Have a Happy New Year! I'll see you next year!

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Reasons why black women are single (Dating Advice for Women)

Recently, I watched an abc news segment called "Single, Black, Female -- and Plenty of Company". It was about successful black women not being able to find quality black men. The news coverage about black women not being able to find qiuality black men was mostly non-sense! It's true that some black men are intimidated by women who have achieved more success and earn more money than them, but most of these men feel that way because they think that these women don't really need them. Think about it. Now if a person does not feel needed, he will eventually go else where to fulfill that need. A lot of black women are not about to obtain a good black man because some of them have negative attitudes, are too argumentative, too materialistic, too independent, rude, don't take care of their physical appearance, don't make a man feel wanted, needed, appreciated, encouraged, and most importantly respected.

If you want to keep a good black man ladies, you need to show him that you....

1. RESPECT HIM
2. WANT AND NEED HIM
3. DON'T WANT TO CHANGE HIM
4. WILL HELP TO SUPPORT HIM
5. WILL APPRECIATE AND ENCOURAGE HIM
6. WILL NOT TAKE HIM TO THE POOR HOUSE
7. WILL NOT FIGHT HIM
8. WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIM

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Make things happen (Dating, Social, and Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

Get off your butt and make things happen! Whether you want to start your own business, travel the world, find the love of your life, get into great physical shape, and so on. You must decide that you want to make things happen in your life. Stop moving in slow motion and get a quick jump on what you want to accomplish. Laziness is not a good excuse. Plan what you want to accomplish and then take action. You're going to have to take some risks on your journey to success. Look at all the successful people you know or even see on television. They all took some risks in order to make positive things happen in their lives. Now it's your turn to make a change in your life. Gather up all of your courage and make things happen NOW!!!!!

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There are 3 kinds of people (Social and Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

There are 3 kinds of people in this world. Those who make things happen, those who watch things happen, and those who wonder what's happening. Now which one are you? Are you one of those people who make things happen? Let's see if you fit into this following descriptions. People who make things happen are confident, focused, and believe in themselves. They plan, take action, and accomplish their goals. People that make things happen tend to be leaders, have great communications skills, and are knowledable about many subjects. They are also determined to succeed in life. The second kind of people are those who watch things happen. These people feel like they have no real power to control their own surroundings. Every day they go about their daily lives working, watching tv, eating, sleeping, discussing trivial matters, and complaining about what the people who make things happen are doing. They usually talk about action instead of actually taking action. And the third kind of people in the world are those who wonder what's happening. People like this are usually ignorant, uneducated, and lazy. They spend their time on entertainment, drinking and using drugs, rejecting knowledge, and isolating themselves. They tend to have low self esteem, are good followers, have a slave mentality, and are generally clueless about most things. Most people fall into the second and third categories. Be the exception and fall into the first category! Become the kind of person who makes things happen!

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Be Your own Boss (Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

Be your own boss! Never listen to what others tell you unless it makes sense to you. Always question and research everything. Most people in this world are followers and slaves who are doomed to be fooled, miseducated, used, abused, and taken advantage of. Trust your instincts and become a free spirit. Study and learn about why things are they way they are in society. Learn the "game". The elite group of people who make the rules of the game and administer it, know how to manipulate the masses to control and dominant them. Think for yourself and gain knowledge of the "game" to use for your advantage. Become self sufficient. Be in control of your own destiny, take more risks, do what most people can't or won't do, own a profitable business, buy property, invest, do what makes you happy, find your passions in life.

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How to achieve your goals (Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

We all want and need to achieve something in life. We have to accomplish something to feel happy and complete in some way. Whether it's winning the lottery, graduating from college, buying a brand new car, learning how to fly a plane, becoming a better dancer, and whatever else we can think of. The best way to achieve your goals is to first create a list of things that you want and need to obtain. Now get a notebook, a pen and think about what it is that you want in life. Next, write down what you want to achieve, no matter how big the dream is. The bigger the dream, the better. You can also keep on adding to the list when new interests pop into your head. There is no limit to this. Now read the list and decide which 3 goals are most important to you and start researching and working your way through achieving those goals. For example, one of your main goals maybe to become a personal trainer. Now all you need to do is take action and research what you need to do to become one. And that's just half the battle. And the next half is to actually make the effort and the sacrifices to achieve that goal. It's that easy! Here's the formula: THINK + LEARN + PLAN + ACTION = SUCCESS . Now get out there and achieve your goals! You can do it because I believe in you!

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How to deal with a needy girlfriend/boyfriend (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

Do you get several phone calls, text messages, emails or surprise visits everyday from your spouse? If you do, then chances are, you have a needy boyfriend or girlfriend. It's great to know that they love you but, needy people can be very annoying and dealing with them can be very time consuming. In order to stop them from being so clingy, you can give them a chance to change their behavior by telling them about what they are doing and how it negatively affects you and the relationship. But also realize that your spouse maybe too needy because of baggage and insecurities from past relationships. Be sensitive to this and show them some extra love, affection and attention now and then. You can also encourage your spouse to go out with his or her friends more and develop new hobbies. Limit phone conversations and visits. This will show your spouse that he or she needs to realize that you do need some space to be alone at times. But if all else fails and your spouse is still annoying you with their neediness, you need to break off the relationship or both of you will ultimately become very miserable together.

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How to deal with a jealous boyfriend/girlfriend (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

We have all been jealous at some point in our lives. Jealousy is a natural human emotion. The definition of jealous is a feeling of resentment because of another's success, advantages, unfaithfulness, or proceeding from suspicious fears. If you have a spouse that looks through your phone, constantly accuses you of checking out other people while you're out in public, calls you a flirt for saying thank you to the waitress, tries to look through your emails on the computer, and what ever else a jealous boyfriend or girlfriend does, then this post is definitely for you. There are several steps you can take when dealing with a jealous boyfriend or girlfriend. In the beginning of a relationship, you should both communicate and set rules on what is acceptable, and what is not acceptable. For instance ladies, if your boyfriend does not like the fact that you have a lot of male friends that call you a lot, you should talk to him, understand his reasons for being upset, and come to a compromise. And men, if your girlfriend feels like you spend more time with your friends than her, you should talk to her about the issue and learn to balance time for her and your friends. Another thing you can do when dealing with a jealous spouse is to not get into an argument. There is no need to get into a fight. It will only make things worse. Just stay calm and rational while discussing your issues. You can also do more things for your spouse to make them feel special. For example, take them out on surprise dates, tell them how sexy they look, make or buy them special gifts, spend more quality time with them, and so on.

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Dating tips for single mothers (Dating Advice for Women)

All the single mommies! All the single mommies! I know it's hard to be a single mother. Especially a single mother in the dating scene. You have kids to take care of and that's a full time job. You're also working to pay off bills, you cook, clean, and take the kids to school and tuck them into bed at night. But you still feel like something, or should I say someone is missing. You want a man in your life. To love you, support you, treat your kids like his own, and to grow with you. Here are the do's and don'ts of dating for single mothers like yourself.

DO'S

1. Tell the man you're dating that you're a single mother. (There's no need to hide the fact that you have kids.)

2. Always keep your kids first.

3. Have fun with your date. (You don't need to feel guilty about leaving the kids with the babysitter.)

4. Take things slow and really get to know the men you're dating.

5. Show your independence. (But not too much. I man needs to feel needed.)

6. Act like you have class. (No quality man wants to date trash.)

DON'TS

1. Don't introduce every guy you date to your kids. (Only when you're serious about the guy.)

2. Don't treat the men you date like you treat your kids.

3. Don't act like you need a father for your kids.

4. Don't move too fast into a relationship.

5. Don't act like a gold digging mommie. (Show the man you're dating that you're self sufficient.)

6. Don't talk too much about your kids. (Ask more questions about your date and also talk about yourself more than you talk about your kids.)

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Learn to shut up! ( Dating and Social Advice for Women)

Have you ever heard of the saying, "Silence is golden?" All I'm trying to say is, you need to learn when to shut the hell up sometimes ladies! No one wants to hear you gossip about your co-workers everyday, you bad mouthing your no good baby daddy, you nagging your boyfriend about not taking you out to the movies or hear you constantly complaining about their not being any good men! I know that women tend to be more talkative than men but, guys can only handle a certain level of chatter until we finally lose our temper. There is nothing wrong with talking and expressing yourself but you should use tact and know when to speak and when not to speak. Choosing what to say and when to say it is a great skill to have when dealing with people. It can save you from total embarassment, stop someone from kicking your ass, or help raise your social status. Talking too much can led you to say something stupid that can cause people to become resentful toward you, turn you into a social outcast, get you fired from a job, cause you to lose a good friend, or can even get you killed. So next time you get the urge to be gossipy, naggy, and talkative, make sure to stop, think, and put yourself in the other person's shoes. Think to yourself, "Should I be careful about what I say?", "Will this be annoying to anyone listening?" Just think before you speak and choose your words carefully.

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First Dates ( Dating Advice for Men & Women)

Many singles are a little nervous and clueless when it comes to going out on first dates. Ladies! Have you ever wondered why he never called you again? Guys! Are you still curious about not getting a second date? It's because you have made major mistakes when you're out on the first date. There are rules and etiquette you must abide by within the realm of dating. Now here are the Do's and Don'ts of dating.

DO's

1. Freshen up and dress casually (Nothing too fancy, sloppy, or revealing)

2. Tell someone where you're going. (For safety reasons.)

3. Meet your date in a public place (Go some place fun or relaxing. For example, a park, art gallery, arcade, the beach, etc.)

4. Smile and give your date a hug when you meet them.

5. Ask them questions about themselves. (Let them do most of the talking.)

6. Be positive, courteous and give sincere compliments but, not too much.

7. Laugh and have fun!:)

8. Be the first one to end the date. (Leave them wanting more.)

DON'TS

1. Don't have dinner or go to a movie on first date (Dinners are too boring and you don't get to communicate much during movies.)

2. Don't talk too much.

3. Don't talk about past relationships.

4. Don't talk about marriage.

5. Don't spend any money on them. (Don't place an invest on someone until they have proven their worth in future dates.)

6. Don't get too personal.

7. Don't show any of your bad habits. (For example, burping, picking your nose, spitting, farting, etc.)

8. Don't kiss or have sex on the first date. (Leave them wanting more.)(Only do this if you're looking for something short term like a one night stand or jumpoff/booty call buddy.)

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Networking Tips (Social Advice for Men & Women)

To network or not to network, that is the question! Now what is networking? Well, networking is the communicating and exchanging of ideas between people for each others benefit. Your social interactions with people can lead you to many advantages. For instance, helpful advice, free gifts, invites to parties and other events, new friendships, new job opportunities, and so much more. Before networking, you should always know your goals first. Are you at a meeting to learn, get more contacts, volunteer, or make business connections? Only visit groups that you're interested in joining so you don't waste your time. Always greet people with a smile, a firm hand shake, and with direct eye contact. Next, introduce yourself and allow the person or people you're talking to, introduce themselves. Be genuinely interested in what people have to say, and ask them questions about what their hobbies and interests are. This will lower their defenses and make them more open towards you. Remember, you have to be interested in people to make them become interested in you. Make sure to ask open ended questions that ask who, what, where, when, and how. Don't ask closed ended questions that can be answered with a yes or no. Be ready to give more than you take. People will remember the knowledge you've provided for them and will most likely return a favor. Have a clear knowledge of what services you provide, for whom you provide your services for, and what's makes you unique from the rest. Be able to communicate what you are looking for, and how others may help you. Always thank, keep it touch, and do favors for people who have helped refer you to others and your connections will develop over time.

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Why men cheat ( Dating Advice for Women)

Recently, there has been constant news and gossip about the professional golf player Tiger Woods cheating on his wife with many mistresses. Months ago, there was also news about the Late Night talk show host, David Letterman having affairs with his female employees. Now the age old question has risen again, why do men cheat? Well, I'll tell you ladies. There are many reasons why a man would cheat on his woman. One reason is naturally, all men have an inate desire to spread their genes to as many females as possible for the survival of their lineage. Some men will always be players for life no matter how loving, caring, beautiful, smart, and talented their woman really is. I know it's harsh but it's true. But some men do have the will power to control their urges and settle down with the woman they are truly in love with. This is why it is very important for a man to go through his Lust Phase. A man's Lust Phase is when he is chasing, dating, and having sex with many different kinds of women. Some men get over it at an early stage in life, and others go through it at a later stage in life. If he does not go through this, he will begin it at some point in the future. If not, he will resent himself and the woman that he is with. Some men also cheat because they have low self discipline, are feeling neglected by their women, are about to break up with their girlfriends because they are too controlling, negative, argumentative, needy, naggy, and are not taking care of their physical apperance. Some men also cheat because are not getting what they want sexually, or are just plain bored and want variety.

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Learn how to become rich and powerful! ( Social and Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

Have you ever thought of having all the money and power in the world? Have you ever watched rich, talented and influential celebrities showing off their expensive homes and other material possessions on TV? Do you wish to be rich and powerful just like them? Now be careful what you wish for... it might just come true! Muwhahahaha! LOL:) Just kiddin! Now let's get back to the topic. If your answer is yes, I'm going to show you the steps you can take to become rich and powerful, just like them. First of all, you need to do your research. Read, watch and and listen to as much material as you can about millionaires and billionaires as possible. According to the book "The Millionaire Next Door" by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko, "about two-thirds of American millionaires are self-employed, the companies they manage are considered dull and normal. For instance, these people are welding contractors, auctioneers, rice farmers, owners of mobile-home parks, pest controllers, coin and stamp dealers, and paving contractors." The majority of the rich are first-generation affluent and live well below their means, invest and save their money, and also never spend more than they earn. The rich and powerful are well educated and have at least one college degree. They also work at least 45 hours a week. So basically, you can't be lazy if you want to be on top. The rich and powerful also have something that is very important to have that's patience. It takes time to acquire wealth and develop a profitable business. The rich and powerful have busy schedules and are at important networking events like trade shows, conferences, seminars, charity events, etc. These places will give you the opportunity to meet other rich and powerful people like business owners, media executives, religious leaders, politicians, celebrities who can help you acquire more wealth and power by introducing you to greater opportunities and contacts. Lastly, to become rich and powerful, you must learn how to be a great communicator. Knowing how to properly get your message across in conversations with people is a highly beneficial skill. It can help you acquire a better paying career, new friendships, leadership roles, greater knowledge, better business opportunities and so much more. So there you go! The keys to becoming rich and powerful are now on your finger tips. Use what you've learned here and you will be on your way to wealth and power!

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5 ways to make your life easier ( Lifestyle Advice for Men & Women)

Everyone wants to make their life easier and less stressful. It's a cold and harsh world that we live in and any advice that would soften the load would be much appreciated. The first way to make your life easier is to start planning ahead. This will prepare you for any difficult situations that may arise in the future. For instance, losing your job, getting into car accident, getting sick or injured, paying off overdue bills and rent, etc. Second, always save more money than you spend. Live below your means. Since we live in a consumer driven society, it will be tough at first but you can do it. The result will ultimately led to little or no debt, less stress, and more wealth. Third, exercise and eat healthy foods. When it comes to making your life easier being healthy is essential. You will become more energized to do more, be stronger, look better, think effectively, and also live longer. Fourth, learn to relax and let things go. You will become calmer, have less stress, low blood pressure, a better night sleep, establish greater relationships with people, and will become a happier and healthier person overall. Lastly, the fifth way to make your life easier is to make smarter choices. The choices we make in life can either make us or break us. It is up to you to decide which choices will be beneficial to you in the future and which ones would hinder your advancement in life. Always remember that the choices you make will determine your future circumstances.
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How to get over your Ex (Dating Advice for Women)

One client of mine told me that she needed help getting over her ex-boyfriend. So I created this post for her and the rest of you. It's time to get over him ladies! Whether you both loved each other and the relationship just ended up not working out or he cheated on you, treated you like crap, physically, mentally, and emotionally abused you, it's time to move on with your life. But first, you need to honestly focus on yourself and analyze the reasons why you've gotten into a bad relationship or just keep meeting the wrong type of man. The questions you need to ask yourself are, What is it about you that brought this negative person into your life? Why did you let what was happening to you continue? Why have n't your past relationships worked? After you've looked at all of the main issues within yourself and corrected them, you will then need to just spend more time with family and friends, focus on your career and your favorite hobbies, and just have fun and enjoy life. And remember that what happened to you was suppose to happen to make you a better person. And also don't take out your past baggage on the next guy. Now you know the warning signs, use them to your advantage.
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How to stop wasting your life (Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

Do you feel like you can be doing a whole lot more with your life? Is everyday a long, sad and boring routine that you feel like you just can't get out of? Most people want to do so many great things with their lives but are just too freaking scared to do them. And yes I was one of those people. It sort of becomes a habit to just do nothing because it feels safe, even though you're not happy. Life is not meant to be wasted! We all get tired and unmotivated sometimes but, we have to find courage and strength from within ourselves as well as others. We need to stop letting circumstances and bad breaks get in our way of becoming greater than we once were. We all should try something new every day, set short and long term goals, be motivated, be thankful for our good friends and family, exercise and eat healthy, appreciate the natural world around us, accomplish more, help someone and make them happy, have fun and laugh more, be more outgoing, and most of all find our purposes in life. So live life now and stop wasting it!
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THE DON'TS OF INTERNET DATING (Dating Advice For Men)

1) Don't show her that you are too interested! That means...no compliments about her physical appearance, no sexually explicit comments, no poems, no love letters or e-gifts. Most girls receive the same kinds of messages from 90 percent of all guys on online dating sites. You need to stand out from the rest of them by being a challenge to her!

2) Don't be stupid! Write sentences using proper grammar. Show her that you have some intelligence.

3) Don't message her just to say hello, to ask how she's doing, that you would like to get to know her or meet her, to just ask how her weekend was, what her interests are, and where she lives. Let her ask you these things.

4) Don't write lame statements like, "Hey! What's Up!", "You are gorgeous!", "Will you marry me!", "I love you!", "Where have you been all of my life!"

5) Don't put her above you on a pedestal! She is not better than you!

6) Don't write your life story or autobiography! It's too long and boring. Most women will just overlook and disregard it.

7) Don't beg for her acceptance! It just makes you look weak, pathetic, and completely lowers your value as a person.

8) Don't give her your number, or ask for hers. Don't give her your email address, or your home address! She does not know you yet.

9) Don't be a desperate loser! You really don't want to come off as being too eager, creepy, horny, and lonely. You need to show her that you have a life.

10) Don't message her again if she does not respond the first time! She's not interested! So just forget about her! There are plenty of fish in the sea.

11) Don't message a female that does not show her pearly whites (teeth) in her profile pictures.

12) Don't message a female that does not have a full body picture of herself. (She is probably out of shape and is too afraid to show it).

13) Don't message a female that has only one picture of herself. (It’s most likely just another fake online profile).

14) Don't lie about yourself. Be truthful and clear about your intentions. (She will trust and respect you for being honest with her).

Now that you know what not to do, we can now get started with the best part of this guide! Here are a variety of openers you can use to attract women online!.......
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A BRAND NEW POST EVERY WEEKDAY!

Hello readers! I have great news! Starting Monday, December 7th, 2009, I will place a brand new post every weekday from Monday through Friday. So get ready! There will be more great tips and advice about dating and lifestyle. I promise you will enjoy this exciting new addition to the INTERNET PIMPIN blog!
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