How to deal with a stalker (Dating Advice for Women)

Stalking refers to repeated harassing or threatening behavior by an individual, such as following a person, appearing at a person's home or place of business, making harassing phone calls, leaving written messages or objects, or vandalizing a person's property. Most women, at some point in their lives have been stalked by at least one creepy man. Whether it was an ex-boyfriend or a complete stranger, women need to learn how stop a stalker at his tracks and prevent from being stalked again. Ladies! While in the dating scene, make sure to never invite a man into your home or tell him exactly where you live. You don't know what kind of person you're dealing with when you first meet them. You need to be very careful but not act paranoid. Here are the warning signs that the guy you're dating is a possible stalker. Personality disorders, emotional immaturity, jealousy and extreme insecurity, inability to succeed in relationships by socially-accepted means. Also, dominating and intimidating victims in order to bolster own self-esteem, biggest fear is losing the you, believing their lives have no worth without you, turning to violence in order to control you, visiting or following you and your family and friends, harassing you with telephone calls, which includes obscene calls and hang-ups, and also vandalizing your property. The best ways to protect yourself against a stalker or potential stalker, is to let someone down easy, call the police when you feel like yorself is in danger, get friends or family to help protect you, take a self-defense class, learn security awareness. carry a blade, come home at different times everyday; never have a pattern. Other ways to protect yourself are to avoid all communication with the stalker, get a new phone number, block your address at the department of motor vehicles and voter registration office, and have your mail delivered to a private post office box. These are all the ways to help prevent you from being a victim of a stalker. Take care and be careful.

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