All the single mommies! All the single mommies! I know it's hard to be a single mother. Especially a single mother in the dating scene. You have kids to take care of and that's a full time job. You're also working to pay off bills, you cook, clean, and take the kids to school and tuck them into bed at night. But you still feel like something, or should I say someone is missing. You want a man in your life. To love you, support you, treat your kids like his own, and to grow with you. Here are the do's and don'ts of dating for single mothers like yourself.
DO'S
1. Tell the man you're dating that you're a single mother. (There's no need to hide the fact that you have kids.)
2. Always keep your kids first.
3. Have fun with your date. (You don't need to feel guilty about leaving the kids with the babysitter.)
4. Take things slow and really get to know the men you're dating.
5. Show your independence. (But not too much. I man needs to feel needed.)
6. Act like you have class. (No quality man wants to date trash.)
DON'TS
1. Don't introduce every guy you date to your kids. (Only when you're serious about the guy.)
2. Don't treat the men you date like you treat your kids.
3. Don't act like you need a father for your kids.
4. Don't move too fast into a relationship.
5. Don't act like a gold digging mommie. (Show the man you're dating that you're self sufficient.)
6. Don't talk too much about your kids. (Ask more questions about your date and also talk about yourself more than you talk about your kids.)
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Friday, December 18, 2009
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