Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Reasons why black women are single (Dating Advice for Women)

Recently, I watched an abc news segment called "Single, Black, Female -- and Plenty of Company". It was about successful black women not being able to find quality black men. The news coverage about black women not being able to find qiuality black men was mostly non-sense! It's true that some black men are intimidated by women who have achieved more success and earn more money than them, but most of these men feel that way because they think that these women don't really need them. Think about it. Now if a person does not feel needed, he will eventually go else where to fulfill that need. A lot of black women are not about to obtain a good black man because some of them have negative attitudes, are too argumentative, too materialistic, too independent, rude, don't take care of their physical appearance, don't make a man feel wanted, needed, appreciated, encouraged, and most importantly respected.

If you want to keep a good black man ladies, you need to show him that you....

1. RESPECT HIM
2. WANT AND NEED HIM
3. DON'T WANT TO CHANGE HIM
4. WILL HELP TO SUPPORT HIM
5. WILL APPRECIATE AND ENCOURAGE HIM
6. WILL NOT TAKE HIM TO THE POOR HOUSE
7. WILL NOT FIGHT HIM
8. WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIM

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Make things happen (Dating, Social, and Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

Get off your butt and make things happen! Whether you want to start your own business, travel the world, find the love of your life, get into great physical shape, and so on. You must decide that you want to make things happen in your life. Stop moving in slow motion and get a quick jump on what you want to accomplish. Laziness is not a good excuse. Plan what you want to accomplish and then take action. You're going to have to take some risks on your journey to success. Look at all the successful people you know or even see on television. They all took some risks in order to make positive things happen in their lives. Now it's your turn to make a change in your life. Gather up all of your courage and make things happen NOW!!!!!

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