Thursday, December 17, 2009

Learn to shut up! ( Dating and Social Advice for Women)

Have you ever heard of the saying, "Silence is golden?" All I'm trying to say is, you need to learn when to shut the hell up sometimes ladies! No one wants to hear you gossip about your co-workers everyday, you bad mouthing your no good baby daddy, you nagging your boyfriend about not taking you out to the movies or hear you constantly complaining about their not being any good men! I know that women tend to be more talkative than men but, guys can only handle a certain level of chatter until we finally lose our temper. There is nothing wrong with talking and expressing yourself but you should use tact and know when to speak and when not to speak. Choosing what to say and when to say it is a great skill to have when dealing with people. It can save you from total embarassment, stop someone from kicking your ass, or help raise your social status. Talking too much can led you to say something stupid that can cause people to become resentful toward you, turn you into a social outcast, get you fired from a job, cause you to lose a good friend, or can even get you killed. So next time you get the urge to be gossipy, naggy, and talkative, make sure to stop, think, and put yourself in the other person's shoes. Think to yourself, "Should I be careful about what I say?", "Will this be annoying to anyone listening?" Just think before you speak and choose your words carefully.

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