Why you're a Slut and He's a Playa (Dating Advice for Women)

There are some women that complain about men being called "PLAYAZ" for having sex with multiple women, and women being called "SLUTS" for having sex with multiple men. This is a double standard for a variety of reasons. The first reason for this double standard is for the simple fact that sex is more available to women than it is for men. Most women get offered sex from men like hotcakes almost everyday of there lives. Usually from their early teenage years to their thirties. The sexual advances and offerings that women receive from men start to decrease as they reach a certain age because women are mainly judged by their beauty/physical appearance and youthfulness. Both of these traits tend to diminish for women as they get older as well as the amount of available quality suitors. This is also the reason why the majority of females want to get married or settle down within their mid to late twenties. For most men, the opposite effect happens. Their chances of getting sex increases as they age because men in society are mainly judged for having social status, money, a stable career, a car and a home. And they obtain these things including knowledge and wisdom, as they age. So it's easy to be a SLUT. And hard to be a PLAYA. This is one of the reasons why men are praised for being "PLAYAZ" and women are looked down upon for being "SLUTS".

The second reason for this double standard is that most women become emotionally attached to the men they sleep with. This later leads to emotional and psychological baggage when the men they've had sex with or are currently having sex with, don't have any feelings for them. These women also become known as "damaged goods" that have been worn out not only mentally and emotionally, but also physically, by so many men. In contrast, most men can have sex with multiple women and not have any feelings for them at all. It's not because the majority of men in the world are evil and heartless. It's just that a man's sexual purpose is for conquest, enjoyment, and spreading his genes. And they only value sex with someone they're actually have respect, trust, and love for. You can't honestly respect, trust, or even love a SLUT. And yes, it's true that some people do change, but in actuality, most people don't.

The third explanation is that women run the risk of not only attracting Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) from the result of sleeping with many men, but also have the risk of unwanted pregnancies. And even if a female does want her child, she will have to go through the physical, mental, and emotional struggles of carrying a child, giving birth to it, and raising it. And in some cases, women that do have children out of wedlock tend to become single mothers and are usually the last choice if any, when it comes to dating. Men also run the risk of obtaining STDs and getting multiple baby mamas. Even though a man is by law responsible for providing financial support for his offspring, he is not forced by law to be there physically for them, leaving the mother with most of the responsibilities and the burden. So please take heed ladies! Don't give up the ass too quickly to most of the men you date, be very picky in choosing the men you do have sex with, and have a small and limited number of sex partners. And remember this, you cannot gain a man's trust, his respect, or his love, if you don't respect yourself.