Women and The 3 Month Rule (Dating Advice for Men)

Guys! Have you ever dated a woman for awhile and got the inevitable question, "So where do you think we're going with this?" This question usually pops up at the three month mark of courtship. Women usually ask us this question when they really want to take things to the next level ie, an exclusive relationship. They don't want to be placed in the "jump-off" or "buddy" category. They want to be in a committed relationship and are hoping that you are too within three months. This three month rule that most women have is a rule that must be taken seriously and not lightly fellas. Don't waste her time and yours. If you honestly want to be in a relationship with her, tell her that you want to be in a relationship with her. It's that simple! And if you don't want to be in a relationship with her, tell her that you don't want to be involved in anything serious at the very beginning, as to cause no confusion later on. Don't string her along because it's just gonna get messy in the end.

But if you feel that you like her but aren't ready for a full blown commitment yet, tell her that you need a couple more months of dating her before you can make a definitive decision. Telling her this will automatically give you a glimpse into her personality and what her true intensions really are. If she's patient and really wants to make things work, she'll give you the time and space you need to later progress into a relationship in the near future. But if she's impatient and demands that you owe her a commitment, then you'll come to realize that she's just another crazy control freak that wants to ruin your life!

How Bad Do You Want It?! (Lifestyle Advice)

How bad do you want to accomplish your biggest goals? What are you willing to do to obtain them? I'm writing this to tell you that I'm in the same shoes as most of you out there. I have not yet achieved my biggest goals, but I'm willing to go through as much pain and struggle as the next man just to obtain them. Achieving greatest! I believe, is what life is all about. To accomplish my greatest dreams, I'm willing to force myself to complete a strict regiment of daily, weekly, monthly, yearly, and lifetime goals. I'll start out everyday glancing at my list of daily goals while completing and checking off each and every rountine task. Even though I may get lazy at times and may want to give up, I'll begin to think of the negative consequences and turn my focus back on the right track. I have set many high goals for myself. Why? Because high goals bring with them, high rewards.

One of my goals is to be in the greatest physical shape of my life. Not only for my own health and longevity, but I also want to start and finish the 2012 NYC Marathon. My girlfriend and I have 8 more races to go before qualifying for next years 26 mile run. I know that it's gonna be a great challenge that we both will conquer. So I'll ask you the question again. How bad do you want it?! If you don't want it that bad, then just forget about everything that I just wrote and go back to watching tv and posting comments on facebook. But if you really do want to achieve your dreams, know that you will go through pain, struggles and failures before you get there. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain! NOW GO OUT THERE AND GET WHAT'S YOURS!

No Cuddling, No Love! (Dating Advice for Women)

I just recently received an email from a lady named "Blondee" looking for some relationship advice and here's what she said: "Hello Mr.Wonderful. my boyfriend doesn't really touch me after we have sex. it kind of, actually really bothers me. does this mean he's not attracted to me? i don't get it. he's not really a super affectionate guy, but it kinda hurts me that he doesn't do this."

Hey Blondee! Thanks for your question. Well, there are two possible reasons why your boyfriend's not affectionate with you after sex. The first reason is that he's too tired and just wants to go to sleep. Believe it or not, even though sex is pleasurable for us men, it also drains the energy out of us. The second reason is maybe like you said in your email, he's just not the mushy affectionate type of guy. Some men don't know how to show their sensitive side. Now instead of trying to force him to change by witholding sex and telling him what to do, show him how important being affectionate is to you. Don't make him feel like he's obligated to do as you say because you're his girlfriend. Make him want to do things for you.

Here's how you do it... After the next time you have sex with him, kiss him, tell him how great he was, and that you just love cuddling with him. And have a bright smile on your face when you say it. Repeat this process and it will soon become a learned behavior. Trust me, if he really loves you, he'll see how much it means to you and will remember to hold you the next time around. I hope that helped. Contact me again if you have anymore questions. And always remember to Live, Laugh, and Love!

A Message To Congressman Weiner: How To "Internet Pimp" (Dating Advice for Men)

Dear Congressman Weiner,

I can only imagine the kind of embarassment that you and your family must be facing right now. It is now widely known that you were caught sending sexually explicit photographs of yourself to several women online. This act has both destroyed your career as well as your marriage. So I've written this letter to inform you of How To "Internet Pimp."

Now I'm usually not the one to judge but what were you thinking?! Didn't you realize that you're a well known public figure that's constantly being watched?!(smh) I know that we all have needs and desires that should be fulfilled but there are much smarter ways to go about them. Maybe you got to a point where you couldn't hold back your urges anymore. Either you and your lady lost that special spark, you weren't getting what you wanted in the bedroom, you got bored and wanted some new tail, or maybe you just wanted some attention. Who cares! What's done is done.

Whatever it was, it doesn't really matter to me. All I'm here to do is to help you learn the Do's and Don'ts of the Online Dating Game. I have written a great online dating guide book that will properly show you how to Internet Pimp, not to Internet Symp. My book is called INTERNET PIMPIN: The Ultimate Online Dating Guide for Men. You can purchase it at Amazon.com or at http://www.internetpimpin.net/

DON'T LET THEM SEE YOU WEAK (Dating Advice for Men)

Don't let them see you weak. Be what you were born to be. A man of courage, strong will, and integrity. Face it guys, no woman wants a man that can be easily manipulated and belittled. Think about it, would you trust a pushover to lead, protect, and help to provide a better life for you? I don't think so. Now remember, most women that you meet and date will test you, directly and indirectly. First, they will test your level of confidence. Women are usually very observant which makes them good at reading body language and voice inflections. To pass the confidence test you must stand up straight, shoulders back, spread your feet wide apart, and walk slowly. And when you speak, speak loudly, clearly, and always keep direct eye contact.

Second, they will test your level of decisiveness. Having the willingness to make decisions, even in the face of complexity or uncertainty shows women that you have good judgement and leadership skills. A woman will ask you random questions to see how good of a decision maker you are. For example, "What do you have planned for us?" "Where do you want to sit?" "So what do you want to do now?" "Where are we going?" etc. To pass the leadership test you must answer her questions in a timely manner with a very little or no hesitation, stay calm and think before you speak. For example, tell her that you've reserved a table at a nice restaurant by the water and that you'll be picking her up at 7pm. When she says where do you want to sit? Tell her that you should sit by the water. When she says what do you want to do now? Tell her that I think we could walk on the beach and get to know each other a little better.

Lastly, women will test your level of bitchass-ness. For those that are n't hip to the term, the definition of a bitchass is a punk or pushover. Women will test your courage by saying and doing things to manipulate you. For instance, a woman may tell you to pick her up Wednesday night at 8 and take her to the movies, she may try to order the most expensive meal at a restaurant and not pay for the tip, she may also make fun of your outfit, and she may also show off a little sassy attitude to annoy you. All this just to see how you'd react. If you react like a bitchass, she will walk all over you and disrespect you every chance she gets. To pass the test, you must be firm and straight forward with your words and actions, then she will respect and treat you the way that you'd like to be treated.

WILL HE LEAVE ME? (Dating & Relationship Advice for Women)

"Will he leave me?" This is a question a lot of women that are involved in relationships ask themselves. A fear of loss, body/age insecurities, low self-esteem, a fear of other women, and lack of trust, cause them to feel that the man that they're in love with, will one day get up and walk out of their lives forever.

There are 5 Signs that show if he's thinking about leaving you:
1) Boredom
2) Argues and Criticizes You
3) Lack of Romance
4) Constantly Busy
5) Ignores You

The most important thing that you ladies really need to realize is that a man that's in his right mind will never leave a good woman. Just continue being the same woman that he fell in love with years ago while at the same time, adding new things to spice up the relationship every now and then. For instance, traveling to another country together, surprising him by wearing sexy new outfits, being more involved in his hobbies, letting him fix things for you, and exploring and learning new things together every year, etc. After doing all that, if he still decides to leave you, then he's a fool that did n't deserve you in the first place.

On a final note, there is no need to worry about someone abandoning you. It will only bring unnecessary conflict into your relationship. If you have a problem, discuss and solve the situation with your man instead letting your imagination run wild. And remember, you don't need a man to validate your self worth. Your spouse is there to compliment you, not determine your value. Only you can do that.

ARE YOU WHIPPED? (Dating & Relationship Advice for Men)

What is the definition of WHIPPED? The urban dictionary defines "WHIPPED" as being completely controlled by a woman to the point where you will do or say anything that she tells you to. If you want to know if you're WHIPPED, take the ARE YOU WHIPPED TEST! If you've answered YES to any of the questions below, it's time to face the fact that you are WHIPPED!

QUESTION 1: Do you like to cuddle with her a lot?

QUESTION 2: When she talks to you, do you ever find yourself listening to every single word she says?

QUESTION 3: Does she dress you?

QUESTION 4: Does she tell you what time to come home?

QUESTION 5: Do you buy her feminine products for her? (e.g., tampons, maxi pads, midol, douches, etc.)

QUESTION 6: When she cries, do you cry too?

QUESTION 7: Does she make you pay for most, if not all the bill when you're out on dates?

QUESTION 8: Do you help her do her hair and makeup?

QUESTION 9: Do you call her daily and constantly send her love notes and flowers?

QUESTION 10: Do you often find yourself saying, "Yes Dear! Right away Dear! Is there anything else Dear?!"

If you've passed the test, CONGRATULATIONS! If you failed, than you really need to stop being a punk and get your balls back!