Women and The 3 Month Rule (Dating Advice for Men)

Guys! Have you ever dated a woman for awhile and got the inevitable question, "So where do you think we're going with this?" This question usually pops up at the three month mark of courtship. Women usually ask us this question when they really want to take things to the next level ie, an exclusive relationship. They don't want to be placed in the "jump-off" or "buddy" category. They want to be in a committed relationship and are hoping that you are too within three months. This three month rule that most women have is a rule that must be taken seriously and not lightly fellas. Don't waste her time and yours. If you honestly want to be in a relationship with her, tell her that you want to be in a relationship with her. It's that simple! And if you don't want to be in a relationship with her, tell her that you don't want to be involved in anything serious at the very beginning, as to cause no confusion later on. Don't string her along because it's just gonna get messy in the end.

But if you feel that you like her but aren't ready for a full blown commitment yet, tell her that you need a couple more months of dating her before you can make a definitive decision. Telling her this will automatically give you a glimpse into her personality and what her true intensions really are. If she's patient and really wants to make things work, she'll give you the time and space you need to later progress into a relationship in the near future. But if she's impatient and demands that you owe her a commitment, then you'll come to realize that she's just another crazy control freak that wants to ruin your life!