DON'T LET THEM SEE YOU WEAK (Dating Advice for Men)

Don't let them see you weak. Be what you were born to be. A man of courage, strong will, and integrity. Face it guys, no woman wants a man that can be easily manipulated and belittled. Think about it, would you trust a pushover to lead, protect, and help to provide a better life for you? I don't think so. Now remember, most women that you meet and date will test you, directly and indirectly. First, they will test your level of confidence. Women are usually very observant which makes them good at reading body language and voice inflections. To pass the confidence test you must stand up straight, shoulders back, spread your feet wide apart, and walk slowly. And when you speak, speak loudly, clearly, and always keep direct eye contact.

Second, they will test your level of decisiveness. Having the willingness to make decisions, even in the face of complexity or uncertainty shows women that you have good judgement and leadership skills. A woman will ask you random questions to see how good of a decision maker you are. For example, "What do you have planned for us?" "Where do you want to sit?" "So what do you want to do now?" "Where are we going?" etc. To pass the leadership test you must answer her questions in a timely manner with a very little or no hesitation, stay calm and think before you speak. For example, tell her that you've reserved a table at a nice restaurant by the water and that you'll be picking her up at 7pm. When she says where do you want to sit? Tell her that you should sit by the water. When she says what do you want to do now? Tell her that I think we could walk on the beach and get to know each other a little better.

Lastly, women will test your level of bitchass-ness. For those that are n't hip to the term, the definition of a bitchass is a punk or pushover. Women will test your courage by saying and doing things to manipulate you. For instance, a woman may tell you to pick her up Wednesday night at 8 and take her to the movies, she may try to order the most expensive meal at a restaurant and not pay for the tip, she may also make fun of your outfit, and she may also show off a little sassy attitude to annoy you. All this just to see how you'd react. If you react like a bitchass, she will walk all over you and disrespect you every chance she gets. To pass the test, you must be firm and straight forward with your words and actions, then she will respect and treat you the way that you'd like to be treated.