How to deal with a stalker (Dating Advice for Women)

Stalking refers to repeated harassing or threatening behavior by an individual, such as following a person, appearing at a person's home or place of business, making harassing phone calls, leaving written messages or objects, or vandalizing a person's property. Most women, at some point in their lives have been stalked by at least one creepy man. Whether it was an ex-boyfriend or a complete stranger, women need to learn how stop a stalker at his tracks and prevent from being stalked again. Ladies! While in the dating scene, make sure to never invite a man into your home or tell him exactly where you live. You don't know what kind of person you're dealing with when you first meet them. You need to be very careful but not act paranoid. Here are the warning signs that the guy you're dating is a possible stalker. Personality disorders, emotional immaturity, jealousy and extreme insecurity, inability to succeed in relationships by socially-accepted means. Also, dominating and intimidating victims in order to bolster own self-esteem, biggest fear is losing the you, believing their lives have no worth without you, turning to violence in order to control you, visiting or following you and your family and friends, harassing you with telephone calls, which includes obscene calls and hang-ups, and also vandalizing your property. The best ways to protect yourself against a stalker or potential stalker, is to let someone down easy, call the police when you feel like yorself is in danger, get friends or family to help protect you, take a self-defense class, learn security awareness. carry a blade, come home at different times everyday; never have a pattern. Other ways to protect yourself are to avoid all communication with the stalker, get a new phone number, block your address at the department of motor vehicles and voter registration office, and have your mail delivered to a private post office box. These are all the ways to help prevent you from being a victim of a stalker. Take care and be careful.

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Dating older women (Dating Advice For Men)

Older women who date younger men are called "cougars". And attractive older women that have children are called "milfs". There are things a younger man must know before dating an older woman. And by older I mean 7 years older or more. Older women tend to be more mature, sophisticated, intelligent, and more sexually experienced than younger women. They are also more emotionally and financially stable, play less mind games if any, are willing to be fun and silly at times, and also have had greater life experiences than younger women. Do know that most of them have some baggage from past relationships. You should also know that most of them have children, and if not, are thinking about having kids and getting married in the near future, or have been divorced or widowed and just want casual sex. But if you just want a fling, just go far it and be honest about your intensions with them. If you want a serious relationship with one, remember that her "biological clock" is tinking and the chances of her giving birth to a healthy child or any child, are lower than a younger woman. Make sure that she's in shape or at least getting into shape so that she has little or no health problems as she ages. Life would be much easier for the both of you. The chances of her having a healthy child would be higher, your sex life won't be hindered, and she will look and feel better as a result. Another valuable thing to know when dating an older woman is that she knows almost all the tricks in book, so don't try to play any mind games with her. She also may not be able to relate to things people in your age group have experienced, is less likely to change her old ways of doing things, and she is most likely to be more understanding, respectful, and caring in a relationship.

BEST PLACES TO DATE (Dating Advice For Men and Women)

Many singles find it hard to find really good places to get to know someone. There are great places to go out on dates. So here a list of great places to take your dates to.

1. Museum - A very good choice when thinking of a place to take a date. First of all, it's free! You can't beat that price. It is an educational venue filled with cultural and historical artifacts. Taking your date to a museum will show him or her that you're a well rounded and intelligent person.

2. Art Gallery - Another good choice for daters who like all kinds of artwork. It's also free and shows your date that you're sophisticated and creative.

3. Comedy Club - Funny, cool, and exciting atmoshere filled with unique comedians that will make you and your date laugh your ass off.

4. The Beach - A peaceful and soothing place where daters can relax, talk, and really get to know one another. Plus, it's free!

5. Amusement Park - There are so many things you can do here. You can play miniature golf, drive bumper cars, go on fun and exciting rides, win prizes, and so much more.

6. Bowling Alley - An exciting place to have lots of fun with a date. Play a couple of competitive games to break the ice and get a little closer to each other.

7. Arcade - Playing video games can be very fun, exciting, and stresss relieving. It's also cheap and let's your date know that you can let go and be playful.

8. Zoo - Seeing wild animals is fun, exciting, and educational. It's also makes both you and your date talk about about the wildlife and get closer.

Tip: (Make sure to pay your own way until after the third date. At that point, you should know if the person you're dating is worth investing any money on. And if they're not, just end it or maybe just become friends with them.)

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A New Year (Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

Happy New Year! It's a brand new year once again! I wonder what your New Year's resolutions are? Do you want to find that special someone in 2010? Maybe you want to get in better physical shape, start your own business, or become more adventurous and travel the world. Well what ever your plans are for the new year, make sure to stick to them and never give up. Everyday should be spent moving toward your goals. It's very easy to lose track of them so make sure to constantly take notes and refer back to them for guidance. Don't let anything or anyone stand in your way. And always remember that you are destined for greatness!

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New Year's Eve Romance (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

Finding love this New Year's Eve will not be as difficult as you may think. It will almost be 10 years into the 21st century and many people are filled with excitement and optimism for the New Year of 2010. Go out and join the celebration! There are parties in every town and city all over the world! Go to nightclubs, bars, restaurants, outdoor parties, and other venues to meet singles and just have fun. And who knows, you might just end up finding and falling in love with that special someone this New Year's Eve! Have a Happy New Year! I'll see you next year!

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Reasons why black women are single (Dating Advice for Women)

Recently, I watched an abc news segment called "Single, Black, Female -- and Plenty of Company". It was about successful black women not being able to find quality black men. The news coverage about black women not being able to find qiuality black men was mostly non-sense! It's true that some black men are intimidated by women who have achieved more success and earn more money than them, but most of these men feel that way because they think that these women don't really need them. Think about it. Now if a person does not feel needed, he will eventually go else where to fulfill that need. A lot of black women are not about to obtain a good black man because some of them have negative attitudes, are too argumentative, too materialistic, too independent, rude, don't take care of their physical appearance, don't make a man feel wanted, needed, appreciated, encouraged, and most importantly respected.

If you want to keep a good black man ladies, you need to show him that you....

1. RESPECT HIM
2. WANT AND NEED HIM
3. DON'T WANT TO CHANGE HIM
4. WILL HELP TO SUPPORT HIM
5. WILL APPRECIATE AND ENCOURAGE HIM
6. WILL NOT TAKE HIM TO THE POOR HOUSE
7. WILL NOT FIGHT HIM
8. WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIM

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Make things happen (Dating, Social, and Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

Get off your butt and make things happen! Whether you want to start your own business, travel the world, find the love of your life, get into great physical shape, and so on. You must decide that you want to make things happen in your life. Stop moving in slow motion and get a quick jump on what you want to accomplish. Laziness is not a good excuse. Plan what you want to accomplish and then take action. You're going to have to take some risks on your journey to success. Look at all the successful people you know or even see on television. They all took some risks in order to make positive things happen in their lives. Now it's your turn to make a change in your life. Gather up all of your courage and make things happen NOW!!!!!

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