ARE YOU WHIPPED? (Dating & Relationship Advice for Men)

What is the definition of WHIPPED? The urban dictionary defines "WHIPPED" as being completely controlled by a woman to the point where you will do or say anything that she tells you to. If you want to know if you're WHIPPED, take the ARE YOU WHIPPED TEST! If you've answered YES to any of the questions below, it's time to face the fact that you are WHIPPED!

QUESTION 1: Do you like to cuddle with her a lot?

QUESTION 2: When she talks to you, do you ever find yourself listening to every single word she says?

QUESTION 3: Does she dress you?

QUESTION 4: Does she tell you what time to come home?

QUESTION 5: Do you buy her feminine products for her? (e.g., tampons, maxi pads, midol, douches, etc.)

QUESTION 6: When she cries, do you cry too?

QUESTION 7: Does she make you pay for most, if not all the bill when you're out on dates?

QUESTION 8: Do you help her do her hair and makeup?

QUESTION 9: Do you call her daily and constantly send her love notes and flowers?

QUESTION 10: Do you often find yourself saying, "Yes Dear! Right away Dear! Is there anything else Dear?!"

If you've passed the test, CONGRATULATIONS! If you failed, than you really need to stop being a punk and get your balls back!

GETTING BACK UP AGAIN (Dating, Social & Lifestyle Advice For Men and Women)

Sometimes life knocks us down. This usually happens when we feel like we're progressing in it. You might have just gotten a new job with great benefits and then get laid off within a month of obtaining it. You met the perfect person at a social gathering and come to find out that their happily married. You might have just won $10,000 dollars in the lottery and later come to find out that you owe the IRS that same amount. Like Kurtis Blow said, "These are the breaks!" Realize that it's part of life to experience negative circumstances every now and then. The most important thing to remember is to pick yourself up, dust off your shoulders and get back to pursuing your goals. You maybe thinking to yourself, "That's easier said than done!" But what other choice do you have than whining like a little baby, feeling sorry for yourself, and coming up with excuses. Have you ever thought to yourself that maybe life is testing you? Yes I know. Sounds like a crazy concept but it also makes sense does n't it? Know one ever told you life was going to be easy. You're going to have some bumps and bruises along the way. And guess whatelse? You won't make it out alive! So enjoy the great things that like has to offer and fight to overcome it's obstacles. You'll become stronger and wiser because of it. And always remember this one last thing...You have one life to live!

SLOW IT DOWN (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

We've all been there before. Out of nowhere, we meet someone that's not only attractive, but also funny, smart, talented, and caring. We then start to think to ourselves, "Wow! This person is great! I want to see and hear from them every night and day!" There's nothing wrong with having strong feelings for someone that you've just met but, slow it down! You don't want the novelty of a new friendship/relationship to wear off. This could also cause the person you like, to become disinterested with you. Take your time getting to know the person that you're with before moving into anything serious. There is no need to rush. You still don't know who this person really is yet. They could have some serious mental and emotional issues, a criminal history, drug addictions, and other personal problems. And most people tend to reveal who they really are within six months of dating anyway, so slow it down! You'll save yourself from wasting a lot of time, energy, money and heartache.

REAL FRIENDS Vs. HATER "FRIENDS" (Social Advice for Men and Women)

REAL FRIENDS are like a surrogate family that support you and make your life easier and brighter. They are always there for you when you need them the most. They are there to hold you after the death of a loved one, encourage you to live up to your potential, got your back in a fight, are not afraid to disagree with you, make you laugh when you feel down and out, and most importantly are loyal and trustworthy. Now HATER "FRIENDS" are fake and envious back-stabbers that gossip and talk trash behind your back. They smile and act kind and helpful in your presence but are secretly hateful and jealous of you, your accomplishments and your loved ones.

These kind of people are not that difficult to point out. They do and say subtle and sometimes blatant things that show you who they really are and what they really think about you. For instance, you may have won 1st place at a sports competition and received a huge trophy for it. And instead of them being very excited for you, they may say to you, "Hey that's great! I remember winning 2 trophies last year! And the competition I faced was a little tougher." Strange and back-handed comments like that tell you what kind of person they really are. Another thing to look for is if they're always bringing up negative gossip about other people. Trust me, if they are talking negative behind other people's backs, they're definately talking bad about you when your not around.

HATER "FRIENDS" are people who are obviously disatisfied with their own lives. They look for people they can break down to their level so that they can become just as miserable as them. Ever heard of the saying, "Misery loves company?" People like these are not your REAL FRIENDS. They will only bring negativity, loneliness, sorrow, and quite possibly death. HATER "FRIENDS" are like a cancer tumor that need to be removed from your life completely!

5 SIGNS TO TELL IF HE'S GAY (Dating Advice for Women)

Ladies! There are 5 Ways to tell if the man you're dating is Gay.

Sign #1: He cares too much about his looks. When ever you're going to the nail salon, he wants to tag along and get a manicure and peticure too. He also constantly looks at his reflection to make sure that his hair and his tight clothes are put together.

Sign #2: He has a little "twerk" in his step. What I mean by this is that he walks and moves in a feminine way. For example, his hips move like a runway model when he walks down the street.

Sign #3: He is too emotional. He expresses his feelings too much both verbally and physically. For example, he likes to complain a lot about his troubles and cries when things really bother him.

Sign #4: He talks like a woman. For example, he uses words like cute, fierce, diva, fabolous, and work it. He also loves to gossip and talks too much.

Sign #5: He loves to sing and dance. He sings the song "Trading Places" to you while you're both laying in bed. And he dances to the song, "It's Raining Men" while on dinner dates.

ALL MEN ARE THE SAME (Dating Advice for Women)

Yes, it's true ladies! All men are the same! Well, I'm only generally speaking of course. I keep hearing complaints from women stating that "All men are the same." They keep saying that all men want is sex, they don't listen, they are not in touch with their sensitive side, they don't want to get serious, they don't know what they want, blah, blah, blah, blah!

I know most of you females have not heard this from your friends and family before but have you ever thought that... MAYBE YOU'RE THE PROBLEM? I know that some of the men that you've met are crazy and undateable but analyze yourself first before going out and looking for more Man-Meat. I want you to take a good look in the mirror and honestly ask yourself (3 times). "Self! Am I the PROBLEM?!"

Now think of all things that you think you could be doing wrong. Not only when it comes to men, but in social settings with strangers, family, and friends. Now get a pen and paper, write down your positives on one side of the page and write down your negatives on the other side. Then read out loud the negatives. Now remind yourself to stop and correct your negative actions when you're in a social setting and when dealing with men. Also remember that like attracts like. You only attract what you're projecting at a certain point in time. And if you develop your personality traits, discover your weaknesses (whether mental, physical, and emotional)and turn them into strengths, trust me! Sooner or later, you will attract a great man into your life!

Look for The 3 Second Eye Contact (Dating Advice for Men)

I just recently spoke to a reader online that was having dating scene troubles. The problem that he has is that he can't tell if a woman is interested in him or not. As a result, he would try to spark up a conversation with random women that he's interested in and gets turned down. Apart from telling him to stay well dressed and smelling good. I told him that he also needs to look for "The 3 Second Eye Contact" from women everywhere he goes.

Whether it's at school, work, the grocery store, bus stop, laundromat, etc. Women are always checking out men. They're just more slick about it than we are. If most men would take the time to look at a woman's eyes before approaching her, they will learn a lot. When a woman looks at you for at least 3 seconds without a strange or angry look on her face, she's non-verbally telling you that she's interested in you. Take advantage of her positive body language towards you and talk to her.