Stop being a Punk-Bitch! (Dating Advice for Men)

The worse thing you can be when dealing with women, is a Punk-Bitch! First of all, let me define what a Punk-Bitch is for all you guys out there. A Punk-Bitch is someone who has low self confidence. A person who let's people take advantage of him. So are you a Punk-Bitch!? Do you let women flake out on you? Do you let females use you for your money? Are you too accommodating? Do you let them disrespect you? If so, you really need to stop being a Punk-Bitch! Be a Man! Have some respect for yourself. You don't need to worry about impressing women with what material possessions you have. Be confident in yourself and show them the real you. Don't kiss their asses, demand respect from them, don't invest any money in them, and don't worry about what they think of you. The result will be.... them respecting you, chasing you, calling you, admiring you, and loving you. All because you stopped being a Punk-Bitch! Now stop being a Punk-Bitch and Be a Man!

Why you're a Slut and He's a Playa (Dating Advice for Women)

There are some women that complain about men being called "PLAYAZ" for having sex with multiple women, and women being called "SLUTS" for having sex with multiple men. This is a double standard for a variety of reasons. The first reason for this double standard is for the simple fact that sex is more available to women than it is for men. Most women get offered sex from men like hotcakes almost everyday of there lives. Usually from their early teenage years to their thirties. The sexual advances and offerings that women receive from men start to decrease as they reach a certain age because women are mainly judged by their beauty/physical appearance and youthfulness. Both of these traits tend to diminish for women as they get older as well as the amount of available quality suitors. This is also the reason why the majority of females want to get married or settle down within their mid to late twenties. For most men, the opposite effect happens. Their chances of getting sex increases as they age because men in society are mainly judged for having social status, money, a stable career, a car and a home. And they obtain these things including knowledge and wisdom, as they age. So it's easy to be a SLUT. And hard to be a PLAYA. This is one of the reasons why men are praised for being "PLAYAZ" and women are looked down upon for being "SLUTS".

The second reason for this double standard is that most women become emotionally attached to the men they sleep with. This later leads to emotional and psychological baggage when the men they've had sex with or are currently having sex with, don't have any feelings for them. These women also become known as "damaged goods" that have been worn out not only mentally and emotionally, but also physically, by so many men. In contrast, most men can have sex with multiple women and not have any feelings for them at all. It's not because the majority of men in the world are evil and heartless. It's just that a man's sexual purpose is for conquest, enjoyment, and spreading his genes. And they only value sex with someone they're actually have respect, trust, and love for. You can't honestly respect, trust, or even love a SLUT. And yes, it's true that some people do change, but in actuality, most people don't.

The third explanation is that women run the risk of not only attracting Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) from the result of sleeping with many men, but also have the risk of unwanted pregnancies. And even if a female does want her child, she will have to go through the physical, mental, and emotional struggles of carrying a child, giving birth to it, and raising it. And in some cases, women that do have children out of wedlock tend to become single mothers and are usually the last choice if any, when it comes to dating. Men also run the risk of obtaining STDs and getting multiple baby mamas. Even though a man is by law responsible for providing financial support for his offspring, he is not forced by law to be there physically for them, leaving the mother with most of the responsibilities and the burden. So please take heed ladies! Don't give up the ass too quickly to most of the men you date, be very picky in choosing the men you do have sex with, and have a small and limited number of sex partners. And remember this, you cannot gain a man's trust, his respect, or his love, if you don't respect yourself.

MAKING CHANGES (Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

To evolve and improve in life, you must make changes. Change the way you think, the way you act, and the way you approach different situations. Your life will begin to change for the better because you are learning to adapt to your surroundings. Life is about survival. And the best way to survive sometimes is to change. Yes, it is scary sometimes to face and accept change but it will eventually happen. Either you learn to change or suffer the negative consequences.

Listen to your mate (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

Relationships are all about communication, trust, and compromise. Couples need to learn to listen to what their telling each other. If there's a problem, both of you need to relax and calmly discuss the issues that you are having with one another. Don't think about hurting each others feelings. Letting everything out in the open is the only way to resolve your problems. And after you've talked about your problems, then you can take steps to rectify them. This process never fails and will bring closure to every given situation.

DOWN BUT NOT OUT (Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

Sometimes life will create various challenges and heartaches for us when we least expect it. These obstacles may consist of losing a family member to cancer, getting laid off from a good career with benefits, being diagnosed with a deadly illness, and so on. What I want to share with you is that, life brings you pain and burden to help you. There is no pain, without gain. The struggles and challenges we face in life are meant to be opportunities for us to conquer. They also help us to evolve either mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually, ultimately transforming us into better versions of ourselves.

Be hungry (Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

To accomplish all that you want and need in life, you must be hungry! Being hungry is having the determination and the drive for more. Always remember that complacency is your enemy. I know that there will be some days when you don't feel like pushing yourself. The truth is, laziness happens to all of us. But what we need to realize is that it's just another obstacle to overcome. Don't allow it to control and devalue your life. You must take steps to discipline yourself. Fasting, meditating, and exercising will help you to become hungry and ultimately accomplish all of your goals.

Valentine's Day for Singles (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

It's that time of the year again! Valentine's Day! Couples will be out and about, eating dinner, candy and chocolate. They will also end the night with love making. But what about the singles? They need love too! This day of love is a great opportunity for lonely singles that are looking for that special someone. The places for singles to attend are, bars and nightclubs, restaurants, social events, and also online social networking sites. They should also go out equipped with their best outfits, a smile, an open mind, and great energy.

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