DON'T PAY FOR DATES (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

Why does a person pay for someone that they don't even know while out on dates? Is it because they're trying to win that person's affection and approval by paying for his or her food or entertainment? Or maybe it's because they've been though that it's the right and polite thing to do? Traditionally, a man would ask a woman out on a date, take her out on the town, spend an hour or two trying to get to know her, pay for everything and end the night taking her home, and probably get a hug and a kiss on the cheek goodnight. It's obvious that women benefited highly from that old way of dating which left men at a disadvantage.

Currently, the dating scene has changed. More and more women are becoming financially independent now and are offering to pay for dates. This fact helps to balance the dating scene for both sexes. Why? Because dating should be a fair and equal investment between two parties. Personally, Intellectually, and Financially. Furthermore, people tend to appreciate what they've worked hard for. It's basic human psychology. So why should the benefits of dating be one sided when it can be spread equally between two people. Realize that most of the people that you date will not be compatible with you. This is why you should not place a full financial investment on any of them. You'll just end up broke and discouraged! And please, don't call your get together a "date", it only adds pressure to the occasion. Instead, just call it a meetup, honestly try to get to know the person that you're with, and see where things go from there. And remember that dating is a screening and filtering process. After you've screened and filtered a person's behavior, character, integrity, honesty and consistency, is when you can increase the amount of investment that you want to place on them.

WHY YOU'RE STILL SINGLE (Dating Advice for Men and Women)

Have you ever wondered why you're still single? Do you keep blaming everyone else but yourself? Well I'm here to tell you the reasons for your present situation. There are many reasons that may be the cause of your loneliness and frustration but, I'm going to focus on the major causes. First, I'm going to discuss the main reasons why some of you are still single.

Reason #1: Desperation - Stop acting like you've never seen a beautiful woman or any woman for that matter. A desperate or "thirsty" man to women is very unattractive. Take your time and be smooth when dealing with a female. Always remember that words are a woman's weakness. And a man's weakness is you ladies. So use that knowledge to your advantage by choosing the way you want to be treated. You don't have to chase and spread your legs for every man that you're attracted to. You'll just be labeled as a slut or a hoe and be treated as a jump-off.

Reason #2: Lack of Confidence - Confidence is key when it comes to your encounters with women. Show them that your confident in yourself, your abilities, and your intelligence. And what ever you do, don't get arrogant. You'll just look like an ass and drive them away. You females also need to become a little more confident in your interactions men. Stop being afraid to approach a man that you're interested in. You don't have to seem desperate and lonely, be subtle and direct in your approach. He may just be the one that you've been looking for. And have confidence in your beauty and natural abilities and don't worry about your little insecurities, they can be overlooked.

Reason #3: Bad Hygiene - This one right here is very crucial. Their are some men that have horrible personal hygiene. If you ever want to get and keep a female, please make sure to take showers with fresh soap everyday, put on good scented deodorant, cologne, brush your teeth regularly because no one wants to look at yellow or brown teeth. And also make sure to get a haircut every month to keep yourself from looking like a crazy bum. Ladies! Get your hair, nails, facials, shave your body hairs, brush your teeth, wear lip gloss, use sweet scented lotions and perfumes, and take showers too. And please keep things clean and smelling fresh "down there", if you know what I mean.(Wink ;)

Reason #4: No Fashion Sense - Women love a man that knows how to dress. So do yourself a favor and start wearing clothes that fit and look good on you. Stop wearing tight ass skinny jeans, Ug boots, Du-rags, Arab scarves, kids clothes, and saggy pants that hang down to your knees. Only dumb little girls like that goofy shit. And ladies, stop dressing like sluts just to get attention. Because the only men you're going to attract are men that just want to hit it and quit it. Dress up with style and class. Nothing too flashy or conservative.

Reason #5: Laziness - Ever heard of the saying, "The early bird gets the worm?" Well that phrase can also come in good use when dealing with the opposite sex. You have to know exactly what you want in a spouse and take the necessary action to find and meet them. But before you do that, you must first close your eyes and visualize what you want him or her to look like, the sound of his or her voice, what he or she smells like, their height, the kind of clothes they wear, their personality, their intellect, etc. Now after you've done this, research places where the kind of person that you want spends their time at. Guys! If you like athletic women, get a gym membership or join a fitness meetup group. Ladies! If you like spiritual men, go to church every sunday or join a yoga/meditation class. And make sure never to leave out chance encounters in places like the grocery store, the bus stop, the mall, at a bar, the post office, and so on. Laziness also keeps people from taking care of their physical health. So make sure to exercise for your health and for the attention of the opposite sex.

And last but not least...Reason #6: Bad Attitude - Everyone hates someone with a bad attitude. They bring out negative vibes that make everybody around them feel uncomfortable. People are more receptive to those that make them feel good about themselves. This is the biggest reason why you're still single! Now are you going to change for the better or are you still going to keep dragging along in this lonely and frustrating road? The choice is yours.

THE DEFINITION OF A JUMP-OFF (Dating Advice for Women)

What is a Jump-Off? The definition of a Jump-Off is a female who is down to hang out and have sex with no strings attached. She also has no aspirations of being in a committed relationship and just wants to have fun. Most women have been some guy's jump-off at some point in their lives. But if a woman allows the men that she deals with to see her only as a jump-off, she will never fully gain their respect. What women need to realize is that men will place you in one of three categories. And these three categories are 1. Jump-Off 2. Wifey (Girlfriend) 3. Friend. And men determine which category they will place you in depending on your personality, your intellect, the way you dress and carry yourself, the way you act and speak, the people you hang around with, and the way you treat people. So be careful about how you act around the men you deal with because if not, you might be placed in the Jump-Off category.

STOP BEING A STRING ALONG (Dating Advice for Women)

Ladies! Stop letting the men you date string you along. If you've been dating a man for months and years and have not established a concrete relationship yet, you are being strung along. If you want a serious relationship, tell the man in your life that you want a serious relationship. Don't be afraid to tell him what you want. Most men will string you along for as long as possible if you don't address the situation. I know that you don't want to be a jump-off for the rest of your life, dating and sleeping with random guys. And if the man that you're dating chooses to avoid the topic, just give him an alturmatum. Either he commits to a relationship, or you're gone. A man knows a great woman when he sees one. Within 6 months, we know if we want you to be our girlfriend or not. So don't waste your time hoping, fantasizing, and lying to yourself about what's really going on within your interactions with men. If you don't wise up and start using your common sense, you will ultimately be faced with feelings of confusion, regret, anger, and humiliation.

INTERNET PIMPIN 2: The Ladies Guide to Online Dating

Ladies! Have you ever dreamed of meeting the love of your life? Does it seem like you'll never get to meet Mr. Right because you're so use to being discouraged by the Mr. Wrongs and the Mr. Right Nows of the world? The modern dating scene is a wild jungle filled with terrible blind dates, dead-beat losers, overcrowded bars, hopeless singles events, and emotionally disturbed and desperate loners.

But you deserve better than this! You deserve to find that special someone. Someone you can really connect with. A man that you’re physically, mentally, and emotionally attracted to. Someone who loves you for who you are, and someone who can be your soul-mate and your best friend. Finding the elusive Mr. Right is difficult but not impossible. There is still hope. Why not try online dating?! You have nothing to lose! There are millions of quality single men to choose from and the possibilities of finding love are endless!

Internet Pimpin 2: The Ladies Guide to Online Dating is the second installment of the ultimate online dating guide series. This step by step guide will show you how to setup your online profile to attract and seduce quality men, how to spark interests with the right messages, how to build a strong connection through conversations, how to get a date with Mr. Right and most importantly, it will also show you how to keep him. Now here’s your chance to make it all come true. This is your chance to find the man of your dreams!

WHY PEOPLE HATE (Lifestyle Advice For Men and Women)

There are many reasons why people hate. People hate when they feel inferior and superior to others, hate out of fear, hate when others beliefs don't match theirs, hate what they don't understand, hate the differences they see in others, and also hate what they can't conquer and achieve. So why do people hate on other people? Well, there seems to be deep rooted insecurities in the minds of most human beings that cause them to hate. The main reason why people hate is that people are very emotional creatures. And their whole lives are affected based on their feelings. You can't fully remedy hate. There will always be some people that will hate on you no matter what. But there are ways to remedy most hatred against you.

Don't let the haters bother you. Just live your life. But try to analyze the situations that you're in and take action to avoid any hostility that may cause you to get harmed, feel insecure or become embarrassed. Don't be arrogant (but be confident), don't be a show off or act like you're better than everyone, don't act like a know it all (ignorance is bliss), listen more than you speak, be respectful and kind to everyone (make people feel good about themselves).

THE TRUTH ABOUT YOUR MALE FRIENDS (Dating Advice For Women)

Believe it or not ladies, but your so called "male friends" are not really your friends at all! Most men and women can not be just friends. Why you ask? Well, because there are usually ulterior motives involved. And in many cases, those motives involve something sexual. For instance, a "male friend" of yours has decided to be your friend and has stayed in the "friend zone" for years, in hopes that he may one day have sex with you. Another reason for being your friend is that he believes you can help him attract more women for him. For instance, he may want you to hook him up with your sister, your cousin, your girlfriend, women at nightclubs, or some other women that you may know. Other reasons for being your friend is that you may be wealthy, popular, well-connected or just a valuable business contact.

Now please don't get upset at me, not all of your male friends want to use you. There are some exceptions! One exception for a man to honestly be your true friend is if he does not find you physically or sexually attractive. Yes. I know this may come as a shocker to you girls but this is just how men think. If we're not attracted to you, then you're automatically placed in either one of two categories: Friend or Nobody. Another reason for being your true friend is if he's gay. Now this one's obvious because gay men are only attracted to men and they usually have at least one or more lady friends to relate to. The third reason for being your true friend is if he's already in a committed relationship with someone. And the last reason for being your true friend is that, you're actually a fun and interesting person that's pleasant to be around.

So there you have it ladies! This is the truth about your "male friends". There are some that truly are your friends. But the majority of them have ulterior motives for being "just friends" with you.