Learn to shut up! ( Dating and Social Advice for Women)

Have you ever heard of the saying, "Silence is golden?" All I'm trying to say is, you need to learn when to shut the hell up sometimes ladies! No one wants to hear you gossip about your co-workers everyday, you bad mouthing your no good baby daddy, you nagging your boyfriend about not taking you out to the movies or hear you constantly complaining about their not being any good men! I know that women tend to be more talkative than men but, guys can only handle a certain level of chatter until we finally lose our temper. There is nothing wrong with talking and expressing yourself but you should use tact and know when to speak and when not to speak. Choosing what to say and when to say it is a great skill to have when dealing with people. It can save you from total embarassment, stop someone from kicking your ass, or help raise your social status. Talking too much can led you to say something stupid that can cause people to become resentful toward you, turn you into a social outcast, get you fired from a job, cause you to lose a good friend, or can even get you killed. So next time you get the urge to be gossipy, naggy, and talkative, make sure to stop, think, and put yourself in the other person's shoes. Think to yourself, "Should I be careful about what I say?", "Will this be annoying to anyone listening?" Just think before you speak and choose your words carefully.

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First Dates ( Dating Advice for Men & Women)

Many singles are a little nervous and clueless when it comes to going out on first dates. Ladies! Have you ever wondered why he never called you again? Guys! Are you still curious about not getting a second date? It's because you have made major mistakes when you're out on the first date. There are rules and etiquette you must abide by within the realm of dating. Now here are the Do's and Don'ts of dating.

DO's

1. Freshen up and dress casually (Nothing too fancy, sloppy, or revealing)

2. Tell someone where you're going. (For safety reasons.)

3. Meet your date in a public place (Go some place fun or relaxing. For example, a park, art gallery, arcade, the beach, etc.)

4. Smile and give your date a hug when you meet them.

5. Ask them questions about themselves. (Let them do most of the talking.)

6. Be positive, courteous and give sincere compliments but, not too much.

7. Laugh and have fun!:)

8. Be the first one to end the date. (Leave them wanting more.)

DON'TS

1. Don't have dinner or go to a movie on first date (Dinners are too boring and you don't get to communicate much during movies.)

2. Don't talk too much.

3. Don't talk about past relationships.

4. Don't talk about marriage.

5. Don't spend any money on them. (Don't place an invest on someone until they have proven their worth in future dates.)

6. Don't get too personal.

7. Don't show any of your bad habits. (For example, burping, picking your nose, spitting, farting, etc.)

8. Don't kiss or have sex on the first date. (Leave them wanting more.)(Only do this if you're looking for something short term like a one night stand or jumpoff/booty call buddy.)

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Networking Tips (Social Advice for Men & Women)

To network or not to network, that is the question! Now what is networking? Well, networking is the communicating and exchanging of ideas between people for each others benefit. Your social interactions with people can lead you to many advantages. For instance, helpful advice, free gifts, invites to parties and other events, new friendships, new job opportunities, and so much more. Before networking, you should always know your goals first. Are you at a meeting to learn, get more contacts, volunteer, or make business connections? Only visit groups that you're interested in joining so you don't waste your time. Always greet people with a smile, a firm hand shake, and with direct eye contact. Next, introduce yourself and allow the person or people you're talking to, introduce themselves. Be genuinely interested in what people have to say, and ask them questions about what their hobbies and interests are. This will lower their defenses and make them more open towards you. Remember, you have to be interested in people to make them become interested in you. Make sure to ask open ended questions that ask who, what, where, when, and how. Don't ask closed ended questions that can be answered with a yes or no. Be ready to give more than you take. People will remember the knowledge you've provided for them and will most likely return a favor. Have a clear knowledge of what services you provide, for whom you provide your services for, and what's makes you unique from the rest. Be able to communicate what you are looking for, and how others may help you. Always thank, keep it touch, and do favors for people who have helped refer you to others and your connections will develop over time.

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Why men cheat ( Dating Advice for Women)

Recently, there has been constant news and gossip about the professional golf player Tiger Woods cheating on his wife with many mistresses. Months ago, there was also news about the Late Night talk show host, David Letterman having affairs with his female employees. Now the age old question has risen again, why do men cheat? Well, I'll tell you ladies. There are many reasons why a man would cheat on his woman. One reason is naturally, all men have an inate desire to spread their genes to as many females as possible for the survival of their lineage. Some men will always be players for life no matter how loving, caring, beautiful, smart, and talented their woman really is. I know it's harsh but it's true. But some men do have the will power to control their urges and settle down with the woman they are truly in love with. This is why it is very important for a man to go through his Lust Phase. A man's Lust Phase is when he is chasing, dating, and having sex with many different kinds of women. Some men get over it at an early stage in life, and others go through it at a later stage in life. If he does not go through this, he will begin it at some point in the future. If not, he will resent himself and the woman that he is with. Some men also cheat because they have low self discipline, are feeling neglected by their women, are about to break up with their girlfriends because they are too controlling, negative, argumentative, needy, naggy, and are not taking care of their physical apperance. Some men also cheat because are not getting what they want sexually, or are just plain bored and want variety.

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Learn how to become rich and powerful! ( Social and Lifestyle Advice for Men and Women)

Have you ever thought of having all the money and power in the world? Have you ever watched rich, talented and influential celebrities showing off their expensive homes and other material possessions on TV? Do you wish to be rich and powerful just like them? Now be careful what you wish for... it might just come true! Muwhahahaha! LOL:) Just kiddin! Now let's get back to the topic. If your answer is yes, I'm going to show you the steps you can take to become rich and powerful, just like them. First of all, you need to do your research. Read, watch and and listen to as much material as you can about millionaires and billionaires as possible. According to the book "The Millionaire Next Door" by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko, "about two-thirds of American millionaires are self-employed, the companies they manage are considered dull and normal. For instance, these people are welding contractors, auctioneers, rice farmers, owners of mobile-home parks, pest controllers, coin and stamp dealers, and paving contractors." The majority of the rich are first-generation affluent and live well below their means, invest and save their money, and also never spend more than they earn. The rich and powerful are well educated and have at least one college degree. They also work at least 45 hours a week. So basically, you can't be lazy if you want to be on top. The rich and powerful also have something that is very important to have that's patience. It takes time to acquire wealth and develop a profitable business. The rich and powerful have busy schedules and are at important networking events like trade shows, conferences, seminars, charity events, etc. These places will give you the opportunity to meet other rich and powerful people like business owners, media executives, religious leaders, politicians, celebrities who can help you acquire more wealth and power by introducing you to greater opportunities and contacts. Lastly, to become rich and powerful, you must learn how to be a great communicator. Knowing how to properly get your message across in conversations with people is a highly beneficial skill. It can help you acquire a better paying career, new friendships, leadership roles, greater knowledge, better business opportunities and so much more. So there you go! The keys to becoming rich and powerful are now on your finger tips. Use what you've learned here and you will be on your way to wealth and power!

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5 ways to make your life easier ( Lifestyle Advice for Men & Women)

Everyone wants to make their life easier and less stressful. It's a cold and harsh world that we live in and any advice that would soften the load would be much appreciated. The first way to make your life easier is to start planning ahead. This will prepare you for any difficult situations that may arise in the future. For instance, losing your job, getting into car accident, getting sick or injured, paying off overdue bills and rent, etc. Second, always save more money than you spend. Live below your means. Since we live in a consumer driven society, it will be tough at first but you can do it. The result will ultimately led to little or no debt, less stress, and more wealth. Third, exercise and eat healthy foods. When it comes to making your life easier being healthy is essential. You will become more energized to do more, be stronger, look better, think effectively, and also live longer. Fourth, learn to relax and let things go. You will become calmer, have less stress, low blood pressure, a better night sleep, establish greater relationships with people, and will become a happier and healthier person overall. Lastly, the fifth way to make your life easier is to make smarter choices. The choices we make in life can either make us or break us. It is up to you to decide which choices will be beneficial to you in the future and which ones would hinder your advancement in life. Always remember that the choices you make will determine your future circumstances.
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How to get over your Ex (Dating Advice for Women)

One client of mine told me that she needed help getting over her ex-boyfriend. So I created this post for her and the rest of you. It's time to get over him ladies! Whether you both loved each other and the relationship just ended up not working out or he cheated on you, treated you like crap, physically, mentally, and emotionally abused you, it's time to move on with your life. But first, you need to honestly focus on yourself and analyze the reasons why you've gotten into a bad relationship or just keep meeting the wrong type of man. The questions you need to ask yourself are, What is it about you that brought this negative person into your life? Why did you let what was happening to you continue? Why have n't your past relationships worked? After you've looked at all of the main issues within yourself and corrected them, you will then need to just spend more time with family and friends, focus on your career and your favorite hobbies, and just have fun and enjoy life. And remember that what happened to you was suppose to happen to make you a better person. And also don't take out your past baggage on the next guy. Now you know the warning signs, use them to your advantage.
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